As Elder Law Attorneys, we meet with clients on a daily basis who are on an emotional roller coaster. Life was rolling merrily along for them, then all of a sudden they received some bad news - Mom or Dad is in the hospital. After a few days, the news is worse - The Diagnosis is Alzheimer's AND Mom or Dad can't go back home - they are having to go to a nursing home. AND the kids have to select a nursing home for Mom or Dad to go to within 24 hours AND the nursing home costs $5,000 per month.
If your other parent is alive and living at home, no doubt all of this has hit them like a freight train. Will they still be able to live at home ALONE without assistance, or will they need assistance? If they do need assistance, what type will they need?
If Mom or Dad is single, some of the questions are: What do we do with the home? Will he get to return home? Should we sell the home? Where are his bank accounts? Are all bills paid? How will we pay for all of this?
We realize that when an adult child walks into our office, they are reeling from all of the above and more. This is where we try to slow down the process, take you by the hand and help!
Medicaid is the program that will pay for your parent's long term care - yes we have to get some information from you to start this process, but after that we will take the ball and run, doing everything necessary to get your parent qualified for Medicaid. This solves the financial part of the problem.
Secondly, our life care planners will meet with you and do everything possible to make sure that your parent gets the best possible care, in the least restrictive environment, without going broke.
The expense of doing all of this is not paid by you, the child, but out of your parent's spend-down - that is out of the money that they would otherwise have had to paid to the nursing home before they received Medicaid assistance.
The BEST PART is that by taking action: (1) We help your parent qualify for Medicaid sooner; (2) We help your parents preserve additional assets; (3) Our Life Care Planners work hard to make sure that your parent is receiving appropriate care.
If you are reading this, it is likely that something unexpectedly bad has happened to your parent. We can't fix that - but give us a call and we'll help to ease the pain.
Showing posts with label alzheimer's. Show all posts
Showing posts with label alzheimer's. Show all posts
Friday, February 26, 2010
Saturday, January 2, 2010
Home for the Holidays with Alzheimer's
Home for the Holidays with Alzheimer's! What kind of blog post is that!? If you visited your parents this holiday season and noticed that something wasn't quite right with your parents, you know exactly what I'm talking about.
Our clients usually have very full lives, complete with spouses and children. Needless to say, their plate is full. Then one day when you come home to visit Mom or Dad, you notice that something is not right. Mom or Dad asks the same question about your youngest daughter 10 times in the space of an hour; or maybe they can’t remember your youngest daughter’s name; or maybe they don’t remember something that you did together 2 hours ago. You suspect the worst. You suspect Alzheimer’s.
Several thoughts may race through your mind. Is it really that bad, or was it just my imagination? Can Mom or Dad get by for a while longer without assistance? What type of assistance is available? Do they have enough money to pay for this? Do I have enough money to pay for this?? Do I need to quit my job and move back home? If you have other siblings, can they handle things? If your other parent is living, can they handle it?
Depending upon the severity of the experience, you may have had these and other thoughts race through your mind. Often it is not readily apparent what course of action needs to be taken. However, to get you started, here are three things that need to be done to best help Mom or Dad:
1. Help them get the best possible care. Of course, this is assuming that they actually need care. In fact you may have overreacted. However your gut feeling is a powerful thing so if you suspected something, it definitely pays to take immediate action. The first step is to get Mom or Dad evaluated by a Gerontologist, which is a doctor that specialized in problems associated with aging. There is probably one in your area. After an evaluation, they can determine what actions need to be taken. Sometimes, something as simple as change in medication may be what’s needed. In more severe cases, a stay in a geriatric-psychiatric (geri-psy) facility may be needed to optimize their medications and treatment regimen.
2. In the least restrictive environment. Obviously, the least restrictive environment is at home. If the Alzheimer’s is at an early stage, and their Gerontologist feels that, with proper medication, it would be safe for them to live at home for a while longer, then this should be considered. Another big factor is who is available to help. If your other (well) parent is still living, they will no doubt want to help and want to keep your parent with Alzheimer’s at home. Consider however, the physical, mental and emotional toll that this takes on the health of your well parent - it is often substantial. Do other siblings live close by that could help? If the situation is a little more severe, you may need to consider home health care, an Assisted Living Facility or a Skilled Care Nursing Home. Again, their Gerontologist should be able to make a proper recommendation.
3. Without going broke. All of this care is expensive. Medicare and their Medicare supplement, should pay for doctors, hospitals and up to 100 days in a skilled care nursing facility (see article on this blog about Medicare). After that it’s probably private pay (until they have spent a portion of their money), then Medicaid (see article on this blog about Medicaid).
Most people of this generation are very private regarding their finances – especially with their children. If the situation is severe, it is probably time to “meddle”. If you have siblings, then all of you may need to have the discussion with your parents together (see article on this blog about Saving the Farm). If the planning process is begun early enough, they can protect many of their assets. However, even in a crisis situation, where time is not on your side, an Elder Law attorney will be able to take many actions to preserve and protect many of their assets for their benefit.
There is no doubt that you love your parents and want the best for them. In a situation like we have discussed above, now is the time to enlist the help of professionals and take action immediately – your parents health depends on it.
Our clients usually have very full lives, complete with spouses and children. Needless to say, their plate is full. Then one day when you come home to visit Mom or Dad, you notice that something is not right. Mom or Dad asks the same question about your youngest daughter 10 times in the space of an hour; or maybe they can’t remember your youngest daughter’s name; or maybe they don’t remember something that you did together 2 hours ago. You suspect the worst. You suspect Alzheimer’s.
Several thoughts may race through your mind. Is it really that bad, or was it just my imagination? Can Mom or Dad get by for a while longer without assistance? What type of assistance is available? Do they have enough money to pay for this? Do I have enough money to pay for this?? Do I need to quit my job and move back home? If you have other siblings, can they handle things? If your other parent is living, can they handle it?
Depending upon the severity of the experience, you may have had these and other thoughts race through your mind. Often it is not readily apparent what course of action needs to be taken. However, to get you started, here are three things that need to be done to best help Mom or Dad:
1. Help them get the best possible care. Of course, this is assuming that they actually need care. In fact you may have overreacted. However your gut feeling is a powerful thing so if you suspected something, it definitely pays to take immediate action. The first step is to get Mom or Dad evaluated by a Gerontologist, which is a doctor that specialized in problems associated with aging. There is probably one in your area. After an evaluation, they can determine what actions need to be taken. Sometimes, something as simple as change in medication may be what’s needed. In more severe cases, a stay in a geriatric-psychiatric (geri-psy) facility may be needed to optimize their medications and treatment regimen.
2. In the least restrictive environment. Obviously, the least restrictive environment is at home. If the Alzheimer’s is at an early stage, and their Gerontologist feels that, with proper medication, it would be safe for them to live at home for a while longer, then this should be considered. Another big factor is who is available to help. If your other (well) parent is still living, they will no doubt want to help and want to keep your parent with Alzheimer’s at home. Consider however, the physical, mental and emotional toll that this takes on the health of your well parent - it is often substantial. Do other siblings live close by that could help? If the situation is a little more severe, you may need to consider home health care, an Assisted Living Facility or a Skilled Care Nursing Home. Again, their Gerontologist should be able to make a proper recommendation.
3. Without going broke. All of this care is expensive. Medicare and their Medicare supplement, should pay for doctors, hospitals and up to 100 days in a skilled care nursing facility (see article on this blog about Medicare). After that it’s probably private pay (until they have spent a portion of their money), then Medicaid (see article on this blog about Medicaid).
Most people of this generation are very private regarding their finances – especially with their children. If the situation is severe, it is probably time to “meddle”. If you have siblings, then all of you may need to have the discussion with your parents together (see article on this blog about Saving the Farm). If the planning process is begun early enough, they can protect many of their assets. However, even in a crisis situation, where time is not on your side, an Elder Law attorney will be able to take many actions to preserve and protect many of their assets for their benefit.
There is no doubt that you love your parents and want the best for them. In a situation like we have discussed above, now is the time to enlist the help of professionals and take action immediately – your parents health depends on it.
Friday, November 27, 2009
I'm Thankful for Alzheimer's Caregivers
Today I visited my brother and his wife in Hot Springs. This was not your typical Thanksgiving holiday type of visit. Johanna is a resident at a nursing home in Hot Springs – she has Alzheimer’s. The facility where she is residing is providing great care. My brother is very thankful for the care that Johanna is receiving and for her caregivers.
My visit today caused me to reflect on all of the people and things in our lives that we should be grateful for. My visit also caused me to think about all of the caregivers out there - whether professional caregivers, family members or volunteers, who are quietly working in the trenches every day to make the life of an Alzheimer’s patient just a little better. For all of these caregivers, I am very thankful. If you know a caregiver, visit them today. If you have the time, sit with their loved one for a little while to give the caregiver a brief respite. And tell the caregiver that you appreciate what they are doing. They are doing their part to make the world a better place.
My visit today caused me to reflect on all of the people and things in our lives that we should be grateful for. My visit also caused me to think about all of the caregivers out there - whether professional caregivers, family members or volunteers, who are quietly working in the trenches every day to make the life of an Alzheimer’s patient just a little better. For all of these caregivers, I am very thankful. If you know a caregiver, visit them today. If you have the time, sit with their loved one for a little while to give the caregiver a brief respite. And tell the caregiver that you appreciate what they are doing. They are doing their part to make the world a better place.
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
Assisted Living Facility Keeps Residents Hoppin'
Last night I was invited to speak at an Alzheimer's support group at a fairly new and very nice assisted living facility in Malvern. I arrived a little early - just in time to hear the tail end of a report of the Activities Director of the facility. The range of activities available to residents astounded me. I think that I only expected to hear about Friday bingo and afternoon card games. Instead, the Activities Director spoke of (1) Opening the place up for Halloween and told how many kids were there last year and how the residents enjoyed it tremendously; (2) A 50's Day, complete with malt shop, soda jerks, sock hop and 50's outfits; (3) Art classes and crafts of different kinds; (4) Beauty pageant; (5) Senior Olympics; (6) Dunkin' Booth; (7) Gospel Singing and on and on...
You would have to try very hard to be bored in this place! If the residents participate in 1/2 of the available activities, they would have no trouble sleeping. Several years ago, the only option for seniors was either stay at home or go to a skilled care nursing home. Today, there are several good options - one of which is an assisted living facility. If you are a Senior or have a Senior parent who is needing help, check out the assisted living facilities in your area. I think that you will be pleasantly surprised.
You would have to try very hard to be bored in this place! If the residents participate in 1/2 of the available activities, they would have no trouble sleeping. Several years ago, the only option for seniors was either stay at home or go to a skilled care nursing home. Today, there are several good options - one of which is an assisted living facility. If you are a Senior or have a Senior parent who is needing help, check out the assisted living facilities in your area. I think that you will be pleasantly surprised.
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
FREE Alzheimer's Planning Workshop in Malvern
The Meeting in Malvern at
The Crossing in Malvern
Join us for a FREE 1-Hour Alzheimer's planning workshop next Tuesday night (September 8th) at the Crossing at Malvern. Workshop time will be from 6:30 - 7:30. We'll be discussing relevent legal issues that you need to know including Medicaid Qualification, Powers of Attorney, Estate Planning issues and many more. To reserve your spot, just call our office at
(501) 843-9014 to reserve your seat(s). We look forward to seeing you there.
Doug Jones
http://www.arkelderlaw.com/
The Crossing at Malvern
720 N. Walco Road, Malvern
http://www.thecrossingatmalvern.com/
The Crossing in Malvern
Join us for a FREE 1-Hour Alzheimer's planning workshop next Tuesday night (September 8th) at the Crossing at Malvern. Workshop time will be from 6:30 - 7:30. We'll be discussing relevent legal issues that you need to know including Medicaid Qualification, Powers of Attorney, Estate Planning issues and many more. To reserve your spot, just call our office at
(501) 843-9014 to reserve your seat(s). We look forward to seeing you there.
Doug Jones
http://www.arkelderlaw.com/
The Crossing at Malvern
720 N. Walco Road, Malvern
http://www.thecrossingatmalvern.com/
Monday, June 15, 2009
2009 Little Rock Symposium - "Alzheimer's: The Continuum of Care"
We Are Excited To Participate!
2009 Little Rock Symposium - "Alzheimer's: The Continuum of Care"
It is with great pleasure and honor that we will be presenting on
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
DoubleTree Hotel ~ Little Rock, Arkansas
8:00 am ~ 4:15 pm
Keynote Speaker: Bill Bridgwater, National Alzheimer's
Association Board Member
Association Board Member
Cynthia will be speaking about
"A Prepared Family is a Happy Family"
"A Prepared Family is a Happy Family"
To reserve, call Alzheimer's Association at (501) 265-0027
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
Spend This Saturday With Friends!
Alzheimer's Association Memory Walk
Join us as we lead our team in the Memory Walk for the Alzheimer's Association!
SATURDAY, APRIL 18th / 9:00 a.m.
If you are not part of a team yet, please join us at 9:00 a.m. on the North Little Rock Side of the Big Dam Bridge (4000 Cooks Landing Rd. in NLR). Or give us a call at 501.843.9014 and let us know you want to join our team!
We have long been supporters of the Alzheimer's Association and hope you will join us on April 18th, as we bring awareness to this important cause. Click here to learn more about the 2009 Central Arkansas Memory Walk.
Join our team! Call us today!
501.843.9014
Join us as we lead our team in the Memory Walk for the Alzheimer's Association!
SATURDAY, APRIL 18th / 9:00 a.m.
If you are not part of a team yet, please join us at 9:00 a.m. on the North Little Rock Side of the Big Dam Bridge (4000 Cooks Landing Rd. in NLR). Or give us a call at 501.843.9014 and let us know you want to join our team!
We have long been supporters of the Alzheimer's Association and hope you will join us on April 18th, as we bring awareness to this important cause. Click here to learn more about the 2009 Central Arkansas Memory Walk.
Join our team! Call us today!
501.843.9014
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